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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Is it wrong for me to like my step cousin if I liked him before we found out we were cousins? He went to primary school with me and he was the only guy who was nice to me. Now we're both in high school, and even tho we go to different schools we catch the bus every afternoon. I dunno whether to ignore the feelings or tell him how I feel. I need help!
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reader, uncle bob +, writes (10 March 2011):
So, I take it this is the stepchild of an aunt or uncle.If your related by a piece of paper, and not by blood, then go for it.Just be prepared for all the jokes your friends are going to make about the two of you when your friends find out that the two of you are, "kind of related", and they WILL find out!Short story.My second wife's son, I'll call him "Jack", met a girl, I'll call her "Jill". They soon fell in love and wanted to marry.At the same time "Jack's" father met "Jill's" mother.They too wanted to marry.So... everybody got married.Today, Jack is married to his step-sister,Jack's father, is also his father-in-law.Jill is now married to her step-brotherJill's mother, is also her mother-in-law.Jack and Jill had three children, and I have no idea how one would classify them!And you think your life is confusing?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 March 2011):
It is ok for you to have these feelings as you were not to know at the time that you were related and he was nice and friendly to you so it is natural that you are going to be attracted to him because he showed interest in you.
Ok when you say you are step cousins what exactly does that mean? In most places it is only illegal to date your first cousin. Therefore you need to answer how you are related to this boy and if it is far out. If you are not blood related to him then go for it and tell him how you feel you have nothing to lose.
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