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anonymous
writes: Is it wrong for me to feel like the love i had for one person is fading away while the love for another person is increasing? Me and baby daddy been having problem every since i had our child which have been seven months. We been arguing none stop. We can't get alone sometimes while other times we are alright. Then me and my ex are starting to get closer. It seem like he's the person that i go to for comfort when and my baby daddy have our problems and the love for him is starting to come back. My ex did not cheat on me when we were together. We just lost contact. Now we talk every day. He tell me he loves me. And i'm starting to believe him! I love my baby daddy but i really love my ex. Does that sounds crazy?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (16 June 2007):
You say you love them both but what sort of love is it, is it different for both? You will always feel love for your childs father but you need to be in a relationship that is good for you in every way like askeve says maybe it would be good for you to take some time out and decide what you want.
Take care.xx.
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reader, nologo +, writes (16 June 2007):
This situation does happen in life.And there is nothing wrong for you.Over time many people learn to cope with several commitments.Sounds like both men will occupy some place within your heart."I love my baby daddy but i really love my ex" - it's Reality.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 June 2007):
It doesn't sound crazy, it happens. You're just confused, you need to take time out from both of them and "find yourself". Ask yourself what you really want from life and who you want to share it with. Ask both of them to give you space for now until you decide, if they both care for you then they'll give you the space you need.
Eve
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