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writes: Should I stay friends with a girl who:- competes with everything about me and what I do - flirted with the guy I loved for 3years, JUST to piss me off (because I think she thought the guy she fancied, fancied me), and then the guy I loved to bits...fell for HER in the end. but they never went out because 'apparently' she doesn't like him..and she couldn't do this to her 'friend' (Me.)- tried to set up her friend with that guy I loved to piss me off TOO, because her friend fancied him. (I dunno WHAT I did to make her do this to me?!)- bitches behind my back (my next friend tell me everything she says - but I'm starting to think if SHE'S the one lying to me?? =S ...). But is all nice, friendly, smiley and fake in my face..and she says I'M immature?? - CLEAR signals that she hates me.If I was a bitch, I would have beaten her up by now.But the thing is..she still wants to be my friend!! I don't want to..i try not to chat to her BECAUSE ^^^^^ I don't feel ANY trust in this friendship, WHY is she still bothering? Doesn't she hate me?!
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (2 April 2006):
 With friends like her who needs enemies........get shot of her she's a waste of time!
Good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006): i agree with tux, maybe shes just a user and your the one being used. you cant either dump her or keep her because you know that saying keep your friend close but enemies closer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006): hey thanks! exactly what i thought..just needed to know what i'm doing is right and shouldn't feel too bad bout it =) xx
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reader, juttandmeff +, writes (2 April 2006):
And you call someone who does all this to you a friend? What does someone have to do to you to be called an enemy? If there's no trust, then why do you bother? Tell her to get lost and move on.
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reader, cfliberal +, writes (2 April 2006):
She doesn't want to be your friend. She is using you to try to make herself feel powerful. Life is too short to put up with that kind of treatment. Distance yourself from this person as much as you can. And remember, this kind of thing won't matter a few years from now if you can maintain your dignity and integrity.
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reader, tux  +, writes (2 April 2006):
 Perhaps she needs to be the popular friend in your group and feels you are competition.. but well my advice would be to move on from having her as a friend. Friends don't keep their friends down. I doubt she values your friendship. bottomline, stay away from things and people that bring you down.
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