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*mac1344
writes:I like a girl, but I'm not sure if she likes me back.We used to hang out a lot a couple of years ago, and I know she liked me then, but nothing really happened. She convinced my girlfriend at the time to break up with me, so then we got into an argument and haven't hung out ever since.Now I'm starting to like her, she sits by me in 2 classes, and I sometimes noticing her looking at me or snickering at a joke I'm telling to a friend.But, we don't have much in common, Shes a straight A student who doesn't drink or anything like that.I'm failing and drink every weekend, so I'm not too sure how she would feel about that.She also talked to me on MSN out of the blue one day a few months ago, but again, he haven't really talked since.She also talks to another guy quite the bit in class and I suspect they might like each other.Just wondering if I should try to get on her good side again and possibly ask her out, is it worth the effort? And if so, how could I approach her after not talking in close to two years without making it totally akward?Thanks.
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reader, Keria  +, writes (25 April 2007):
I'm not really sure how we can help you with this. Let me see if I can sum up the problem:
You like a girl
You don't have a lot in common
You wonder if she might like someone else
You wonder if a relationship with her is worth persuing
Who knows? Do you have anything to lose? Why not try it out and see. Is it worth WHAT, by the way? Is it worth your time and effort? If you won her over would it be worth it to you? If you don't win her over, would the pursuit have been worth it to you? Only you can answer this. If you are wondering if you could succeed, well, no one here can even pretend to help you, because we don't know you and we don't know her.
You will have to decide this one out on your own, I'm afraid.
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reader, accused  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 Be like NIKE and "JUST DO IT".... Did you ever find out why she got your ex gal to break up with you? If you like this girl and she used to like you then just talk to her... Maybe if you get a chance one day in one of your classes ask her out of the blue what really happened with the whole past ex break up deal... but ask in a joking way to let her know you are not upset about it now.... and watch her body signals.... Women like to touch your hand, or in some kind of way laugh at everything you say that is funny... constantly pushing her hair off her shoulder..... If you can get into a conversation with her then you will have your answer... Sounds to me like she likes you too.... JUST DO IT......... Keep me posted and best of luck
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