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reader, Hopeful +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Depends on the person, depends on the time, depends on what you are looking for and what you want out of life.
Good relationships shouldn't be a "hassle". Yes, work is required to make them work but it shouldn't be hard work.
Relationships can be amazing but so can being single. I've experienced good doses of both and there are great things about being in a relationship and great things about being single.
It;s nice having someone to share everything with, cuddle up to, surprise, share special occassions with but on the other hand, its great to be able to do what you want when you want, flirt with anyone that takes your interest, spend more time with your mates, pursue your own interests and not have to compromise the little things like what movie you want to watch.
At the end of the day,I, and a lot of others would rather be single than in a relationship which was a "hassle" or simply was abusive or unhappy or unfaithful etc.
If there is no one that you want to be in a relationship with, don't force it, enjoy being single. On the other hand, if there is someone special who you think it could work with, give it a go.
But at the end of the day, it depends on you and your life.
And I think the real question is not if relationships are worth it, is the person worth it? So consider that, is this person worth it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): Being single can be fun, but nothing beats a good relationship. When u find a person worth committing to then it shouldnt be a hassle. To me having a boyfriend who really loves you and is your friend is awesome and u wont care about being single. If u havent found that person yet, then dating around a bit is fine, jus take light and have fun, you never know when someone will surprise you.
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (7 May 2006):
 Relationships are always fun. You just have to pick the ones to choose from. Staying single is also fun. You can do as you please, but is your are trying to hook up with someone,they might say no because you two are not going out or something. You are going to have to choose this one for yourself. If you are in a relationship, you have someone that loves you, and you get the great adventure of cuddling, and god knows what else. Do wat you choose, but i think that both are wonderful, but i prefer to be in a relationship
good luck
Robin
aka advice gurl
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): relationships are worth the hassle when you've found someone to love :)
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reader, bonym  +, writes (6 May 2006):
 Relationships dont always have to be hassle, true love conquers everything and if there are problems, love will cover a multitude of woes and you can have perfectly healthy and lasting relationships. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): Really think deep before you get youself involved with someone, sometime people get stuck in a relationship that they can't get out of. So being single is great because you will not have anyone to worry about if you do or say sometime that might hurt their feelings.Your happiness is more important than others so love yourself more than you love others.
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