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writes: The past couple of weeks, my boyfriend and I have been getting into aguements, and who doesn't but these arguements are not like any others. Lately, he's been telling me things, sometimes important, and when he asks me what was said, I can't even tell him, when we are talking on the phone, I ignore him, I just sit and hold the phone, and don't say anything, he's talkig to me and that is the only thing that I can do, when he is. Am I crazy, what is it? I'm not responding to him at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ryder  +, writes (10 May 2006):
 Hello,
I think this is quite odd haven't read any questions like this before :P
I think this might be due to the following reasons:
1. You don't like talking on the phone much.
2. You are getting bored of his conversations what i know is women are the ones who like to talk about themselves they don't appretiate men who kepp talking and talking abou themselves not giving a chance for a women to talk back which is probably what your boyfriend is doing.
3. You are an insomaniac which isn't likely but you might be and you are too tired and too lazy to talk on the phone so you just say: "Uhm - Yeah - Maybe - No - I dont remember"
What i think is he has been talking for the past weeks about himself all the time which is getting very boring to you, so you are not paying much attention. If so, don't tell him stop talking about yourself or anything that will just show you don't appretiate his calls which will offend him instead change the subject constantly say something about you talk about something interesting and that should hopefully and temporarly solve the problem till he stops.
Good luck my regards, Ryder.
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reader, Ryder +, writes (10 May 2006):
Hello,
I think this is quite odd haven't read any questions like this before :P
I think this might be due to the following reasons:
1. You don't like talking on the phone much.
2. You are getting bored of his conversations what i know is women are the ones who like to talk about themselves they don't appretiate men who kepp talking and talking abou themselves not giving a chance for a women to talk back which is probably what your boyfriend is doing.
3. You are an insomaniac which isn't likely but you might be and you are too tired and too lazy to talk on the phone so you just say: "Uhm - Yeah - Maybe - No - I dont remember"
What i think is he has been talking for the past weeks about himself all the time which is getting very boring to you, so you are not paying much attention. If so, don't tell him stop talking about yourself or anything that will just show you don't appretiate his calls which will offend him instead change the subject constantly say something about you talk about something interesting and that should hopefully and temporarly solve the problem till he stops.
Good luck my regards, Ryder.
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