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Is it wishful thinking that he likes me? Or could it be reality?

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Question - (24 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2011)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear readers i need help

i know you probably get questions like this all the time...im falling for this guy and im unsure if he likes me back...can any one shed some light on my situation?

okay the background.. i met him 5 weeks ago, i only seen him in person for 5 days...i was completely taken..hes amazing and hot and well words cannot describe. ive talked to him ever since then, on fb and the phone etc..we flirt, its great i feel special. he seems great, hes a little over a year older than me, we have stuff in common and i miss him terribly!

okay then problem is ive been told hes a flirt...and i seen that when i saw him with other girls..but he says that they ask him and as we r not going or anything he says yes or wat not.

i never know when i should txt him or call cus i dont want to be a bother..i dont want him to think im obsessed! i just always want to be with him....

i dont know how to tell if he likes me, i think he might but i really dont know! can anyone tell me if you think he might?

he says he misses me and woud like to be with me... but im still unsure

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2011):

Dear Mandy agony auntHi

well why dont you call him and ask him out? his either going to yes or no, the longer you keep this to yourself, the more your going to go nuts lol..

And as far as other people telling you his a flirt, tell them to mind there own buisness, never judge a book by it's cover, many men and women flirt so what? as long as that is all it is playful flirting, how else would you let a person know you like them if you dont flirt a little. You say you seen him flirt too, so do a little of your own with him, goo get your man :) xx

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntdo you guys live close? how often could you see each other face to face?

if he's a flirt it's hard to tell if you can't spend time together if he really likes you or not...

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A female reader, kylieekristina United States +, writes (24 May 2011):

kylieekristina agony auntQuestion

#1 Have you kissed? I'm hoping the answer is yes and if it is then how does he kiss you? Is it sexy and passionate? Does he seem nervous or like he's trying to impress you?

#2 How often does he call you first? and does he always call you back?

#3 Does he listen to you? (test this theory by telling him something and then seeing if he remembers.....like your favorite candy, your birthday, favorite song etc.

You'll know what I'm getting at when you answer these questions .

Good Luck....

I hope he does like you a lot!!

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