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writes:Okay.. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now. And Our realtionship is volatile to say the least. Not in a violent way, but we argue imensely and we can tear each other apart pretty easily then suddenly go back to being completley normal and happy.We love each other thats for sure. And she has always been loyal to me and I to her, until the other night.I was at a party with lots of my friends, who know my girlfriend, though not friends with her, see me as a respectable 'nice' kinda guy. Yet After a few drinks and dancing i was flirting and chatting with a female friend. And things cot close and we had a little kiss. It was breif and after that i had to leave quickly.Now when the morning arises, im left feeling guilty and worried. I dont want to split up with my girlfriend and i dont even like this other girl really. But now all my friends have seen me cheat. And Im worried my girlfriend will find out. I dont think she will. But im finding it hard to sleep.Our relationship has its good points which are amazing. And the bad points which are horrible.What do I do? Will i get found out? Am I a bad person?Please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): I agree with Tommy7! Dont ever mention it, if they bring it up then totally deny it and make out that they are trying to ruin your relationship. Forget about it. It was a kiss and nothing else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies! Its good to get other opinions. Thank you for taking the time to respond
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reader, rcn  +, writes (14 October 2007):
 You made a mistake. To get rid of the guilt, you have to come clean with your mistake. At least it was only a quick kiss. Even though that still isn't a good choice, your leaving was.
So many times people say, this happened, I hope they don't find out. Why not say, I did this, I own my responsibility for making a bad choice and I owe it to her to tell her I made this mistake.
You both really need to learn how to argue properly without attacking or hurting the other person. Discuss issues, don't argue over them. How many times do you guys argue where anything really gets solved?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 October 2007):
Don't ever say anything about it. If someone brings it up, deny it.
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