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writes:Hi all. Your opinions would be most welcome. Thanx. I have been with my bf for around ten months. It has,nt been an easy relationship,so over the last month or so, i.ve started to try and detach. I.ve been waiting for him to commit for sometime,but it wasn.t happening,so in the end I wrote him an email saying I don.t feel part of his life ,and that i.m sick of being low down on his list. Now,the funny thing is, since i,ve started to detach,the sex has become mindblowing and passionate,and in the last week or so, i.ve given him the blow jobs,and we have had the sex of our lives,which he has described as beautiful sex,and the best. I surprised myself by the way i have been sexually recently. Since the email,and explosive sex,he has become far more commited,is treating my home as his,and being more open generally. My question is this. Was it the email,or the fact that the sex has got so amazing that has caused him to show more commitment? I.ve been trying for months to show him how much i love and want him,and he has backed off. Thanx. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi all. Thank you for taking the time to answer me. I thought it might be the sex,but he is showing other signs,e.g buying stuff for my house,and making it more his,but as you said,he doesn.t want to lose the sex,although i know he loves me,and he,s told me this many times,and calls me regularly,although i get a sense there is an agenda,but can.t quite put my finger on it. He,s spending alot more time with me,which is what i.ve wanted for a long time. I don.t know what to think now,and can.t see the wood for the tress. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): I think its the sex that is attracting him. Try slowing that down and see if he still hangs around. That will give you an indication of his true feelings.
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (1 January 2012):
Sorry to be cynical but it's the sex.
He's around your home more now because of the sex. What other signs has he shown of a bigger commitment?!
What do you want? Marriage?
You need to have a talk with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): "Is it the new and amazing sex we are having that has caused him to start to commit? Or my honest email?"
Neither, it's the prospect of losing the free no-strings sex HE has been having regualrly and frequently for the past ten months.
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