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Is it stress or am I pregnant?

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Question - (17 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey i need help please!!

Okay you get asked this everyday im sure.

But please be a little patient with me im 16 years old and scared to death.

Ok me and my boyfriend have had sex WITHOUT protection, VERY stupid thing i know but it happened and were not proud of it.

Its been about a week since we last had sex.

We have unprotected sex before that though, and although i got my period right on time i got these symptoms throughout my period and all this month.

Nausea / ive been sick in the morning and late night

Headaches - but only short blasts

Backache - only very dull pain

Bloating - alot!!

Motion Sickness - i havent had that before

Yesterday i noticed a slight bit of blood when i went to the toilet but no sign of any since then.

Im always quite tired too.

Now can any of you tell me without telling me to take a test whether these could all be signs of worry or anxiety? Or am i more than 30% pregnant?

Thanks

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

you need to get a pregnancy test these work after 14-21 days after you had sex, i think its obvious that you could be pregnant but normally symptoms don't appear till your around 4 weeks pregnant sometimes a little earlier!

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (17 October 2007):

I don't think anyone on hear can give you a good answer as to what your chances are of being pregnant. The symptoms you said you have could be because you are pregnant or they could be simply because you are fearing your pregnant so you are just imagining you areh avign them. I know that has happned to me before.

Go to your local supermarket or chemist and get a pregnancy test and see the result. Put your mind at rest. Or you could go to your doctors. I would suggest going to your doctors so then you can also talk to him/her about safe protection.

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A male reader, Dextro69 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2007):

Dextro69 agony auntThe symptoms you describe can be related to stress but it is impossible to tell without getting a test done. If you feel you can’t go to your doctors (if you don’t want to do a home test) try going to your local walk in centre. I would advise doing this as if you are stressed this can also make you miss your period which would just make you more stressed. Also if you are pregnant it is better to find out sooner rather than latter so you can decide what to do, be that keep the baby or an abortion but that is something only you can decide. Please remember your doctor or the walk in centre are not allowed to discuss with anyone whatever you discuss with them.

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A female reader, supLadita Philippines +, writes (17 October 2007):

i think im just stressed about our situation because we are so far from each other.

i wanna be with him but i cant coz im having my studies here in cebu.

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A female reader, troyssweetie Australia +, writes (17 October 2007):

troyssweetie agony auntyes. those can be signs of pregnancy. but also can be signs of anxiety or maybe another issue all together. sometimes when women think they could be pregnant they actually get symptoms when they are really not pregnant. if you were pregnant, you would also have really tender breasts and be extra hungry. but if these problems continue, you should really see a doctor because there could be something else wrong.

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