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female
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writes:I was masturbating the other day and it was vaginally and I "squirted" (sorry, I don't know the real name for it). I thought it was weird, so I did research and it said that some women do that when they orgasm, but it didn't feel like an orgasm, or at least what I think one would be. I haven't reached an orgasm yet, but I've been sort of "working on it" through clitoral stimulation. I've kind of felt the same build up (but just barely) through vaginal stimulation once, so I know I could probably have an actual orgasm that way. My question is, why do I "squirt" so easily, and why doesn't it come with the same "build up" that I had that one time? Is it still an orgasm although it doesn't feel like one?Thanks so much.
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reader, Amph  +, writes (17 January 2011):
Let me make clear that there isn't a vaginal orgasm or a clitoral orgasm. Nor a squirted one. There is a only one orgasm. Women have the clitoris. Some of its nerves reaches the urethral opening and the vaginal opening. The fluid you've seen comes from the paraurethral ducts, after you've inside stimulated your vagina in the right points. You can consider it as the prostate gland. It looks like many women don't know they can ejaculate, though it doesn't match with an orgasm.By the way, you're so young. When you'll be an adult you'll find that sharing your sexual life with a partner that you love, well, that leads to a very special orgasm. Until then keep on exploring yourself as much as you like, but don't care about orgasm or not. If you think too much about it, it doesn't come. If you don't, it comes double. Enjoy.
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reader, wornoutmommy +, writes (17 January 2011):
 lol, its ok to be confused here. When a man orgasms, he orgasms and cums at nearly the same time. Women on the other hand are different. We can cum and not orgasm (which is what happened) or orgasm and not cum. Sometimes a woman can have multiple orgasm in a row without cumming (or squirting). Some women do squirt, others gush and others it's barely noticeable. This is pretty detailed, and I apologize if you're taken back-- but this is what I've learned. Hope it helps! :)
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reader, RalphW +, writes (17 January 2011):
Sometimes that "squirt" is nothing more than the release of urine. Before having sex or masterbation a female should always void her bladder.
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