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*rincessjasmine
writes:I live on the East coast and the guy I'm interested in lives on the West coast. I just liked his picture on facebook so I IMed him on AIM. He looked like a genuinely good person, and turned out to be a genuinely good person! I'm a picky persn and maybe it's the mystery of not yet seeing him but I'm really liking him. I like everything except the fact that I ask most questions, and he loves answering them, I mean we both talk the same amount but I don't know, maybe I'm more interested in him than he is me. He gave me his number but we never talked on the phone, we've only texted, he was nice enough to order some things for me on his employee discount, which is y he gave me his number in the first place (so it was business related) We hardly talk, maybe once a wk to once every two weeks, but our convos are great and long when we do talk. He mentioned liking another girl but that doesnt stop me from pursuing b/c he hasent done anything about the other girl yet. I wanted to know if I had a chance with this guy some how. Is it realistic?
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (14 January 2009):
princessjasmine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys, thank you for your advice. My only thing is, I don't know what to say, he'll think im crazy. Why would a person like someone so far away, and we hardly ever talk, he's just on my mind, i tell myself its crazy, but i have this weacky idea that if we talk enough, maybe in the summer ill go visit, since hes in vegas any way, and maybe then tell him how i feel..I just dont want him to b like, um ok, u hardly kno me and u like me? when u havent even seen me..thats too weird don u think? my only concern is, its not easy finding guys even here b/c my parents wud only allow paki/indian muslim..not many of those , i know most of em around this area and not interested, thats y i figured fiacebook...but hes just too damn far:( its like wen u see or at least talk to someone whos a good catch, u dont wanna let tht go...i dont wanna mess up my friendship with him...i dont know, should i just stop thinking about him and just focus on my career, not worry about finding the right guy right now? im only 22. But hes so cute..i cant get over it, we have the same values, we're on the same page he gets things b/c we're from the same culture, and at the same time hes so open minded and intelligent, u dont meet gys like that everyday, but hes far and we dont talk much, idk what to do but telling him would be so weird dont u think. imagine a guy who im'ed u and u talked like once a wk, and 3 months later h tells u he likes u, how wud u take tht?? let me know thanks:)
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 Realistic or not, you like this guy. Distance is a reality shock for most of us when it comes to liking someone or loving some one. The question I have to ask first is not how long the distance but have you told him about your feelings? Being honest in the situation you're in is crucial. Trust in long distance anything is a must. You have a chance but if you want more of a contact relationship I think you need to stop day dreaming over this guy and try finding someone in your area. I know that great guys don't come along like buses but you'll find one. Who knows, Maybe he is mr. right but untill you know keep your options open. Date! I know being picky sucks for both parties but if you don't go out on a limb you'll always be stuck in the trunk. I recently moved to Texas for a school thing and I left my boyfriend in Cali. We talk every night and I know that he's the one. So don't give up. It's not just what I say. It's what your heart tells you.hope this has helped. jenni hearts
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