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writes:Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down?I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf and im 21 which is a bit embarassing, shes the only girl ive ever been with and done anything with. We gave each other our virginity. However, she is has been with boys in the past and is more experienced,but I have been her longest relationship and I am her first love. And now we've been together for over a year i feel its time to think a lil bit more seriously. I do love her, but i am asking myself those questions stated in the first paragraph.I cant see myself with anybody else only thing that stops me thinking far ahead with my gf is her past even though she gave her virginity to me. Can someone help me please? thank you
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 It is all providence. If you are meant to have one relationship , then it will be that way.
If not , you will be like your partner moving from one till you settle down with the right one.
No two relationships are the same . Each and everyone is unique.
What you learned from another relationship may not apply .in the present case.
It is not how much you know but how you use your knowledge that counts.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (18 February 2008):
There is no particular reason why you need to make a decision on this yet. Just take your developing relationship slowly. Do not worry about the experience bit as many people who have had good marriages for 50 or more years started out the same way as you two.
Just enjoy each others company and if it develops to the point where you both want something more permanent then talk about it together. I would not worry about the experience bit though because the intimate side of each relationship is usually different and so may not always be a good thing.
Good luck
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