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male
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30-35,
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writes:About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had been dating for a little over 2 months at that point when she did it. Her reason was because that she was scared and it may have been going a little too fast paced for her. I know I messed something up though told her I want forever too soon, but she did say it first so I don't know. However, she never told me that it was going somewhat too fast for her. She told me this about a couple days after we broke up. I thought things were going great between us, and I'm pretty sure she was really happy aswell. I know she was happy I just don't know what happened. I really don't want to lose this girl. I can't describe how she makes me feel. I was wondering if anyone out there could give me some advice about winning her back. What should I do?I made this note that I havn't gave to her yet. Think I should give it to her?(Her name)… I gave you the wrong impression about me wanting forever so soon. So I scared you away pretty much and that’s my fault. The truth is, I only said forever was because I missed you so much from when I didn’t get to see you everyday and I thought you liked to hear that, you know. I want you right now in the present time and maybe eventually that forever will come if it does work. We never really got to know each other and that’s a shame. Because, just from what I do know about you I know that I lost this amazing girl, you’re so beautiful, intelligent, nice, caring, and one of the things that I like the most is that you haven’t given yourself up yet. It’s really hard to find a girl with that and I respect that so much about you. I for one don’t want to lose this truly amazing girl. Not a day goes by that I don’t miss you. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. And I would like for you and me to start all over, forget the past, forget anything and everything that we ever did, said. A fresh start, think about it, please.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
I don't think you can win her back. She made it pretty clear you were going to fast, and I have to say that you're letter is pretty heavy as well (no offence there, it's more suited to a solid relationship). If you want to try, why not phone her and just ask her to give you a second chance. If that doesnt' work, you'll have to accept that she's moved on.
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