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writes: Hey, I'm 16 and me and my 19 year old bf had unprotected sex yesterday. Even though he never actually cums he was about to yesterday and he had to stop because of it anyway even tho he didn't cum I am just wonderring if I could still be pregnant? Is it even possible if he didn't cum at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): I don't often post to these sort of things but found myself compelled to due to the responses this thread has produced. Firstly, you have already been sensible in attending a clinic for pregnancy testing and confirmed you are not pregnant. Secondly, you are young and therefore I would hope relatively inexperienced in sex - therefore this can be put down to a mistake on this occasion, and I dont think you should be vilified in this thread for your actions. Your boyfriend is older - he just wants to get his rocks off and should know better. In future, always use a condom to avoid pregnancy AND importantly, to avoid STI's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): You could be as he might of pre-cumed
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): will you get pregnant if you used a condom but he didnt even cum in it?
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (28 March 2006):
 How do you for sure he didn't cum? You should go to the doctors just to be sure.In future times PLease use a condom as anything is possible.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 The short answer is YES!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): How do you know for sure there was NO pre-cum, dear. Pre-cum is a fluid that is released during sexual arousal, usually before and during intercourse. In most cases, it usually seeps or is secreted out the tip of a man's penis. If you and he were having intercourse, you would not have known if he was secreting pre-cum. Pre-cum secretion is 'not' the same thing, as ejaculation due to orgasm. A man does not have to be in the throes of climaxing or ejaculating to secrete pre-cum. Hope this answers your question, dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all for your advice ... i have gone to the clinic and I'm not pregnant however, I'm still wanting to know though if there was NO PRE-COME if anybody could get pregnant? This is simply a question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): Use a condom - from now on! My partner and I were so terrified of becoming pregnant when I was younger (I personally could not have aborted a baby and we didn't want a baby then) that I went on the Pill AND used condoms as well. Please be responsible and use contraceptives in future - it will save you the heartache of facing the agonising decision of whether to abort a baby and fighting STD's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): Yes its possible...you need to go to the chemist get the emergency contraceptive pill...like now. i think you should go to the family planning clinic too. they give out free condoms and you should get tested for std's, sti and hiv. you may love your boyfriend and think hes diease free but seriously get check out.
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 I wish you the best of luck and hope the best for you. But it is possible. My gf became pregnant by this method in one try and I thought i didn't cum inside her. I would not suggest anyone to try to have unprotected sex unless they want a child even if it is the first time of the night or first time ever.
But as the others have already mention, do not stress over it too much. Things will work out. Maybe not always the way you want them too, but you'll be fine one way or another. and make sure to see your doctor.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 yes you can, it is called pre-cum, and it happen to me, my b/f and had un protected sex for about 10mins and then we had to stop and he didnt get to cum and then 2 weeks later i found out i was pregnant, if you do have unprotected sex again or a condom break you can always get hold of the emergency pill this will help reduce the chance of becoming pregnant but you have to take it atleast 3 to 5 days after you had sex or else its not effective , the earlier the better,maybe you should talk to your gp about going on the pill or getting an implant to help provent pregnancy. i also had a similar experience as jadzia with an abortion and it is awful and one of the worst feelings ever and i agree protect yourself.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (27 March 2006):
 I think it is advisable to get yourself to your GP and discuss with him/her. They are in the best position to help you and give you the best advice.
I think that way you can avoid stress and worry and also ensure that you have information for next time when I hope and trust you will use protection to avoid this scenerio again.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (26 March 2006):
Yes, as said below. Get yourself to the GP or for the morning after pill. Get yourself some reliable contraception, preferably a barrier method to protects against STD's as well as pregnancy and dont be so foolish in future!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh btw there was no pre-come....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): First of all...you are 16 years old and should know better about the consequences of unprotected sex.
But...now that you've done it, here's a factoid for you...he doesn't need to "cum" inside of you for you to get pregnant. You can also get pregnant from his pre-ejaculatory semen. Which means that if it's coming out of his tip at any time that he is close enough to or inside of your vagina, YOU CAN GET PREGNANT. That's why they tell you all to put on the condom before you get close.
My advice is that it's too early to tell right now if you are pregnant. If you stress yourself out about it now, you could cause yourself to have a delayed or skipped period (which happens to women with anxiety or high stress levels) and push yourself to think you are pregnant. When the time comes...about 3-4 weeks out, and maybe even a couple of weeks after that, get yourself tested not only for pregnancy but STD's. I don't care what a guy says...he may not know he has a disease, so make sure you are clean...then don't have any more unprotected sex. If you did not know any of these things about sex, you are definitely not ready for sex and its consequences.
Slow down!
Get yourself out of high school before you have a child...it's not going to be easy, but you can do it. Get yourself on the pill or some other contraceptive and use condoms in addition to that. Not only are you trying to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy, but from STD's and the pill or other oral or shot-given contraceptives don't provide that type of dual protection for you.
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reader, jadzia +, writes (26 March 2006):
YES! As men get more aroused and get close to coming (as you said you're boyfriend did) they do produce a clear sort of pre-come fluid which can contain sperm. I dont know how likely it is that you can become pregnant but it is possible! so get yourself to either your GP or pharmasist and get an emergency contraceptive pill, which can be taken up to 72 hours after sex. Please dont run the risk of unwanted pregnancy - i recently had an abortion and it was devastating. protect yourself, and good luck!
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