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writes: I am gay(19) and in love with my friend, how should i play the situation? He has behaved in many ambiguous ways and although i have told him my feelings we have always been under the influence of E. He has suggested that although he doesn't find men attractive he could if he was in love with the right individual. He used to play fight with me and squeeze me between his thighs. On one occasion he touched my cock with his foot when we were watching tv alone but nothing else happened.Since splitting with his ex last year he hasnt had any female companions as a friend of ours pointed out and shortly after the split he came round to mine drunk one night complaining of frustration after going out with the lads and being encouraged to pull a girl, going back to hers and leaving when she removed her knickers. He often touches me and one night after going out he came back very drunk and was so overtly sexed that a "jealous" female friend(obsessed with man control since giving up stripping four years ago and putting on weight) told him that i must find his head sitting on my crotch intrusive(i found it lovely). When no-one was looking he lunged at me knocking me to the floor and sucked on my neck/shoulder(i had a mark the next day).I dont get many opportunities to speak to him on his own anymore and am considering leaving the situation emotionally as the chance of things progressing is limited and may never happen (i have had mental problems and fear depressive behaviour has left him feeling rejected). At the same time i dont want to right him off as i have loved him for over two years and dont see the point in giving up on something that could be very important and special. Does he sound viable or am i kidding myself?
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reader, DocLove +, writes (6 April 2006):
i know that because you dont know and i dont know you but let me tell you this. If you value his friendship this is going to be a very dangerous game to play. I know it is difficult but you have to have pattience. Wait for him to make the first move. In the mean time be his best friend, be there for him when he is feeling down. Dont act too soon, you may just spoil your friendship and then all of chances are all gone. So i wish you good luck, that is the only thing you will need in playing the game of love.
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reader, shania  +, writes (26 March 2006):
 This friend of yours seems very confused with his sexuality.He is fighting his feelings for you or he is trying to get you worked up because he gets the buzz that you like him alot.....either way,he is playing games with you because he is not being honest.Your best bet is to stay away and see what happens....he must be aware on how you feel about him yet he is not very forthcoming with you.If he thought anything off you,he would be seeing you now and telling you that he wants a proper relationship with you....not all this ducking and diving.He could be bisexual and trying to come to terms with it...who knows?..I think he is a tease when it comes to flirting with you but to be honest i dont think he really knows what he wants.You could wait forever for him and still not get no where,just leave him to sort out on what he wants...in the mean time i would set my sights on other potential partners who wont mess you about and would want to have a relationship with you....i cant see this friend of yours...being the one.Good luck.
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