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writes: This question is for men, but not only! My husband is impotent with me, a few years ago. There is no medical reason for it. He is healthy.So my question is, is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman? I'm just wondering, how often it happens, that the man can't get it on with his wife, but a new woman can fix this. So, I don't think, if he stays like this we can live together much longer, but I don't want to leave him, if he is really in trouble...But I also don't want to be an idiot, to waste my life on this. I'm sure he is not having sex with anybody else. But I just can't live like this. What do you think? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, y  +, writes (21 November 2008):
My husband was impotent when he was very stressed at work, which was very demanding. Try to change the environment, let him relax and then see if he still has the same problem.
Men are sensitive to pressure.
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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 You could try and spice things up a bit, if you know what I mean. Maybe buy a porno dvd and watch it with him, see if he reacts to that. If he doesn't then perhaps he should see a doctor, could be something wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): If he hasn't been impotent before then it is possible that there is something upsetting him emotionally that you need to talk about. Try not to put any pressure on him as it will only make him feel worse.Maybe you could persuade him to go to the doctor, and see if he would like you to go along too.
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