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Teacher situation is a mess, please help.

Q.   I haven't spoken to my teacher for a year and then today I went up to him and spoke to him and I really don't know why, I needed to ask him for these sheets I did and then I asked him how he was as obviously I haven't spoken to him since June last ...

A.   2 April 2009: He knows that getting involved with you could get him in to trouble and this climate is very hostile towards anyone who transgresses. he can't afford to explore his real feeliongs for you so he has to be curt and professional, otherwise the ... (read in full...)

Nudes & videos of g/f & ex

Q.   I was using my girlfriends email (she knows i know the log in) because my email wasn't working. I came across something that hurt me deeply. When she was with her ex, they exchanged n'udes and videos. I have no idea what to think, and i can't get ...

A.   2 April 2009: That was something she did in the past before she met you. I know you want to be the only one who 'knows' her but she has a sexual past and she was entitled to pursue it however she wanted to. We all do things we might wish we hadn't but you are ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering

Q.   Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made ...

A.   2 April 2009: Many guys, especially sporty guys, behave in this pseudo-sexualised way with one another. It is an integral part of the male bonding process and usually has defined boundaries. Admittedly, these can be trangressed, but it is not a sign that it has ... (read in full...)

Teacher Love?

Q.   ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

A.   2 April 2009: I don't like hysterical reactions about paedophiles and so forth; people can fall in love with whoever, doesn't make you a perverted, deviant, sexual predator. That said, it is not right for a teacher in his position to be telling you that you are ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

Q.   I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was ...

A.   2 April 2009: This would be my answer to you. This guy is married so he is not going to be as serious about you as you obviously are about him. He has been patient all this time because he has nothing to lose. He has his wife, maybe other girls he has met over ... (read in full...)

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