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writes: OK, I've got a girl that I wanna take to a dance. I've asked her, haven't gotten a response yet, and I'm kinda nervous about it. But that's not my real problem. I don't really know how to confront her about it. My parents said that if she says yes they're going to get me a new car, but I don't want that being the reason she wants to go with me (the car in question is a `76 Mercedes 450SL, not trying to show off but its a nice car so it may have some weight). At the same time, I think she might say no because I gave her my phone numbers and told her to call me if she can go but she hasn't...Also, on a side question: If she does say no, is it ok for me, a 16 year old junior in ROTC who also is the drill team commander, to cry, even just a little bit? I don't like too, but it may happen, ya know? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo clarify, my car right now is a certified POC. My uncle wrecked it twice and never got it fixed. That's why they told me they would.
And to the anonymous, that's sick. Nasty, evil, greedy people do that, and I would never think of it. This girl means a whole lot to me; more than I ever thought she would. I wake up thinking about her, I do my school work thinking about her, and I go to sleep thinking about her. I dream about her.
Besides, if I wanted the car, I'd just work for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): your using this girl to get a new car!!thats what this sounds like. you need to grow up, this girl deserves more than this, phone her and see what she says if she says no then find someone else.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 your parents are going to buy you a car IF this girl goes out with you? what are they teaching you?!!! this is ridiculous, they shouldnt be rewarding you if you get a date - there are plenty more things that should be recognised - wat if she says no? do they dangle the keys and then take them away? sorry but SO unfair!! wen is the dance? why not just call her and ask her if she can go? if she says yeah great - if she still puts it off and doesnt give you an answer, just tell her that its fine and you just take someone else. im sure you will find someone who will really want to go with you - so you get the date, and the car?!! as for the crying, well its up to you, but in all fairness, why shed a tear for an immature indecisive girl - its only a dance date after all!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Do your parents know the girl in question? Call her up and ask her can she make it, if she puts you off again then tell her it doesn't matter then just find someone else to ask... anyone! Once you find a date then tell your parents you've got a date to go and voila.
~Eve~
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