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writes:I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while, and we are very close. We have told each other how much we care about each other in a lot of ways, but haven'y actually said "I love you" yet. Is it ok for a woman to say I love you first, or should she wait for the guy to say it first?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 FWIW my BF never says it back and NEVER says it. in the nearly year we've been together I've heard it from him maybe twice....
i base how he feels about me on his actions however.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses. I know that he probably won't say it back, and I am fine with that. The main thing is I just want hime to know that I do feel this way for him, but I don't expect anything from him just for him to know. Thanks for helping me with this, I really appreciate your help.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 September 2011):
 I see by your submittal that you are between 30 and 35 years of age....
If you want to wait until you are in your 50s to hear a guy say "I love you".... then go ahead and wait....
Good luck.....
P.S. You KNOW you've only got a 50/5 chance that he'll parrot it back to you if you say it, anyway!!!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 September 2011):
if you feel it say it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 September 2011):
Perfectly fine to say it first if you mean it. Don't wait for him. Say it.
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