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writes:Hi,I have never asked a girl out on a date. Here is my current situation,There is this girl that goes to the same college and works at the same place as I do. She is very nice and sweet. I don't know what she thinks about me but I know for fact that being around me doesn't bother her, because she has told me that numerous times; basically what I want to convey is that I am not a creeper :P So, I really like her and, in my opinion, the timing is right. The only missing part of the puzzle is whether she would like to go out with me or not. Now, since I have never asked a girl out, how should I approach her and ask her out on a date? Since we already know each other a little, is it OK if I ask her directly whether she wants to go on a date with me or not Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 The best way is just to ask her directly. At least then you will know where you stand. I know that it can be quite scary as you have never asked a girl out before. But just keep it cool and play it casual. The next time you are talking to her ask her would she like to go out and have a drink with you or even to catch a movie or grab some food. I hope her answer will be yes. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Here's what to do. Find out what new movies are out or opening. Then when you see her next strike up a conversation about which movie you'd like to see. Then see what she says. Talk about upcoming movies in general, pay attention to which she seems most excited to see. Then, when you hit on one that sounds like she wants to see it, say, "Hey, would you like to go with me to that specific movie?" If she says, "Like on a date?" say "Yes."
That's my plan because that way you are nervous, and that way you are asking her to do something she wants to do already. :)
The worst that can happen is she says no. But you never know until you try!
Good luck!
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