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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Last week, my boyfriend of a year (who is studying abroad in Greece) and I had an argument about trust and such. Usually we set an appointed time to go on Skype to see each each other, and sometimes he doesn't show up. I was really angry at him, and in desperation he gave me the passwords to all his accounts and email telling me that there's nothing I should worry about. I mean, it's difficult to coordinate our schedules with the time difference and everything.Well, this week he did it again! and I wrote him an angry email. After an hour or two I regretted what I sent, but i thought of how I have his passwords. So, I decided to delete the email on his end.While I was in there, I found that in the past few days, he has been corresponding with a high school friend of his (who he has never mentioned before). And she is planning a vacation in Greece! She needs a place to stay, and wants him to show her around. Should I be concerned? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): I take it you're not 10-12.If he gave you his passwords and knows that you have them, it's fair to say that he's probably not trying to hide anything he writes with those accounts. Obviously he doesn't think this showing her around thing is a big deal, and neither should you. Try to get out of the habit of reading other people's correspondence, while you're at it.
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