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41-50,
*likenight
writes:Every time me boyfriend and I have sex, I am on top. Is this normal, I mean my friends always say they are never on top, and I know that usually the man is on top but my boyfriend doesn't like to be on top, and he doesn't seem to know how to "work it" when he tries being on top. I like to be on top, it is the only way I can have an orgasm. Some of my female friends say they can't even feel sex if they are on top, which to me is crazy b/c to me it feels so good. Also, is it normal to cum at the same time? My b.f. and I always cum simultaneously, every time we have sex..and neither of us makes noises, so we don't know when the other is cumming. I don't mind that we do, it's just kind of strange to me. I mean, how does that happen, every single time? Must we have the same sensitivity and feel it about the same as eachother? Sorry if these are odd ?'s I just want to see how other people comapre.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Lots of girls are on top. At first, I was on the bottom, but realized that it feels better to be on top. Don't worry about being the only one of your friends on top, there are many of women who do the same. Whatever feels better, do it.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I don't see anything wrong with your being on top. It's all a matter of preferences. Things are fine between you two if you agree to it.Now, having an orgasm at the same time is what some people wish they had and don't. Enjoy!
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reader, myp +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I think its special when you both come at the same time, thats great. Thats like a whole new level of spirituality in sex. As for positions do what feels good to you everyones different and trying different ways to have sex is fun. You dont have to go strictly missionary, or girl on top there ar countless other ways.-Myesha
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