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writes:i am really really REALLY worried and i need some help, or just support. straight to the point- i am gay, and the other night i was at my friends house, it was just us there. basically it was very hot, he took his shirt off. we started kissing and it went from there!!!i could not help myself + in the end i "gave it to him up the arse". i know that there are huge risks involved, and i am really worried that i could fall ill with something. i want to know whether i can get deseases if he does not have any, and how to tell if there is something wrong with me. i am really worried and don't know what to do-PLEASE give me lots of advice!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Bottom line.. yes you did put yourself at risk for HIV. Don't do that again to yourself. Always use a condom. But now that you have had unprotected sex do not worry yourself sick. My ex slept with a prostitute (notice I said ex). He did use a condom. But he was so stressed out that he started having psychological illnesses. He went and got tested all the time. Lucky for us both he didn't catch anything. We did learn a lot during this time. There is a window period of six months before HIV can actually show up. Do what the other reader suggested and get tested in two weeks. Then I would do it again in three months. Then in six months again. Please for yourself learn about the risks of HIV infection. Always use a condom. Keep one with you at all times in case it gets "just too hot to handle." Also please do not put anyone else in the same situation as you and go get tested....Good luck.
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reader, BeHereNow  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I'm sorry, I didn't read your question correctly - you cannot get any diseases if he does not have any.Early symptoms of exposure to hiv are flu-like symptoms - but don't freak out if you do experience it because you could be psychologically giving yourself symptoms or happen to catch a cold.Just get tested in a couple of weeks and again in six months and in the meantime ask the guy about his complete sexual history and if and when he's been tested.
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reader, BeHereNow +, writes (24 June 2007):
Yes. Yes! You can get something with unprotected sex and the risk is even higher if there is any breakage and blood. Don't ever have sex unprotected again unless you are in a monogamous relationship with a partner you can trust and you both have been tested for HIV. You should ask the guy you were with what his sexual history was, if he's had unprotected sex or has ever been tested. According to the site below if you do have anything it would show up on a test anywhere from 3 weeks to 6 months maximum after exposure and there's more information about oral sex -you can get HIV through that too- and other STDs. If you are ever tempted to do something without protection in the future just remember how worried you are about it now. So don't do it again!http://www.cdphe.state.co.us/dc/HIVandSTD/fieldservfaq.html#howlong
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I think you can get sti's from anal, I'm pretty sure infact. You can go to your doctors and get tested to set your mind at ease. I certain you can get aids but unsure of about anything else.
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