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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I keep dating the man who has said to me in the past that he isn't interesting for a serious relationship. Although we don't discuss this subject quite often i haven't really gotten over this. But i see him sometimes when he arranges that. I don't keep asking him to meet each other more often as i really don't feel very warm about him. However, i can't deny to go with him when he proposes that to me. I think that he isn't really interesting in me and he only wants to see me sometimes. I think he doesn't really care about me. However i usually think about him and i would like to see him more often. I usually think that i would like to reverse this situation- for example i don't care and he cares. Although i don't agree with all this, i find him interesting and we usually have good time together. I don't deny that i am looking to find someone else that he will combine the good things from this guy with a desire for a real relationship and real interesting. Is it bad to keep seeing this man while there isn't something other really interesting? Although i have said to him that i would like to see him more often i think that he realises that i try to find someone with real interest although i keep seeing him. Does it make him angry or he doesn't really care at all? Is it possible to change something about this situation and he changes his mind or it wouldn't change anything ever? And is there any advice that i should follow to make mim change his mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
He won't change his mind ever. I think he's using you, and you would be better off not meeting with him at all, because you're getting hurt. There are other men out there and one of them will care about you more than he does. Don't settle for second best. Find someone who will care about you. xx
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