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Is it abnormal to prefer to find chat mates here rather than get to know people in real life?

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Question - (24 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *tevelc writes:

Just wondering if there are some people to talk to on here. I need some friends, and maybe then I can think about other things. I don't know many people, and honestly, that is the way I prefer it. My question is this? Is this normal for someone who is male and 27, or is this abnormal?

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A male reader, stevelc United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

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stevelc agony auntSorry for delay in replying. I guess you all have a point. I know I like a lot of things most everyone I know can't stand. However, in turn, I don't like most things other people do either. Never have dated or anything either. Another thing would be the fact that I get scared around other people, although sometimes I go around people and it doesn't bother me at all. Not sure what sparks that change, it justs happens.

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (24 March 2008):

°Ale° agony auntI wouldn't say that you're nerdy or weird. If you're able to make friends over the internet then you should be able to do the same in real life. If you can connect and have things in common with people here, what's the big difference on doing the same in real life?

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

There is nothing wrong in it at all. But i prefer contact with people and i only come on here to help. But if you want to get in touch then feel free, you are not hurting anyone and we are all friendly (well, i think we are!)

take care

xx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (24 March 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI wouldn't call it "abnormal", as this suggest your being a freak or something like that. I think that you have a serious problem relating to people in real life, and this problem is gone when you're not face to face. It might not have anything at all to do with you. Perhaps you're a little too, too shy? Or very nerdy and then no one finds common ground with you when you discuss negatively-charged protons?

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