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writes:I got together with my boyfriend (who is 16 and I'm 19) while he was with another girl. They had only been going out for two months and we felt that what we had was really special.He's dumped her now but now I'm scared he'll do the same to me. I trusted him, but now he's given me VERY small reasons not to trust him anymore. It's only been a month but I feel there's something strong going on between us. Is he taking me for a ride? Do you think I can learn to trust him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 You're exactly right. Bull is what it's called. That's almost like what a friend of mine experienced. She came home, her boyfriend was on the couch. His pants were down, another girls pants were off, and she was orally pleasing him. She walked in and her boyfriend said "honey, it's not what it looks like." If I were you I'd tell him, if he's not man enough to handle you, you'll find someone who is.
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reader, angelicdivauk +, writes (10 September 2007):
angelicdivauk is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi I am the Asker of this question. Well that was a pointless question! woke up this morning after i had left my computer on with msn still logged in and he had dumped me! Well, sort of! He says he needs time to think and his head and heart is all over the place, as he has never been without a girlfriend for two years. He says he loves me but needs a break.
What a load of Bull!
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2007):
Dating a 16 year old at your age. A 16 year old boy is not really ready for a committed relationship. He may not be meaning to be taking you for a ride, but he is in the point of his life of experimenting to find out what he's looking for when it does become time for a long term commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): You can't learn to trust anybody. Trust is EARNED. For you to trust him, he has got to prove to you that he can be trusted. That's all. And if he is proving you otherwise then NO you can't trust him. So leave him.
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