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*elshlass86
writes:I am 22 and have been with my partner for 5years. He is 50. When the relationship started the sex was amazing. Now, i dont feel horny towards him anymore. Dont feel horny towards any male really. is there something wrong with me? what can i do to change this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): All part of nature. Many people are out there who are not interested in sex. That shouldnt bother you. A woman can perform even without desire. Unless you miss feeling horny, you should be fine. If you want to feel horny again, there are treatments out there. If you are taking certain pills, like antidepressants or birth control pills, they can be the reason. You may have a hormone deficiency. There are ways to tackle these things. Go and see a doctor.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 April 2009):
Well it could be that your feelings have faded from love into friendship.
Many people find that initial feeling of love fades after 3 to 5 years.
The fact you don't feel attracted to ANYONE though may mean you are going through a period of change or depression in your life.
You are still young and when you started going out at 17 your hormones will have been going crazy. Now they have settled down and you have grown up it could just be that this is your natural level of sex drive.
Some people just don't want sex very often. If you are comfortable with your sex drive and happy then you don't need to change.
If you do want to be more sexually active then you could just try finding things that turn you on on your own and then think of them and find your man. You could try going on the pill as that can have an effect.
But you may just have to ride this out and see if it's just a phase or if it's who you are.
Good Luck!! xx
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