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writes:Hi I have a problem with the father of my son, we've been together for 6 Years now everything is fine except he doesnt take care of me I mean ,he didnt pay for my son and he never proposed to me , he doesnt help me with anything like buying something for his son , phoning him NO!, all he wants is sex, and he doesnt want me to go out ,I have to report first, I dont know I was wondering if his still in love with me or im just his sex partner? please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much guys for your advice, I have to report to him everytime when i go out if i went to sleep to my mothers house hes gonna call my mom and found out if im there and he wants to stay with me full time,he always complaining about money he said he doesnt have any sometimes i help him, i dont know I love him his the only one but im tired of his terms and conditions ,How do I forget him, Where do i start, What to say to him, Im clueless
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You are reporting to him before you go out? You are asking him for permission to go out? I'm sorry. Is he giving you the same courtesy? No? That is ridiculous. I wouldn't put up with that.
You are way too young to be putting up with that crap. He sounds extremely controlling, to the point of where he is making it so you can't meet anyone else.
Get the hell out of that relationship, it's been 6 years, do you honestly want to spend another 6 years doing the same thing that you are doing? Do you want to report to him for the rest of your life?
It sounds like you are a booty call. Do you give him money for things? I hope not. My son's bio father used to do that to me all of the time.
Please think hard about how you want to live your life, you only get one. Don't put up with crap you don't want to. You deserve better. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): I think you are spot on so move on! You are worth more!
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