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writes:hi i have a question its kinda iffy so could all of you answer it the best u can thanks. my boyfriend gave me his password to everything that needs a password so does that mean that he has nothing to hide or does he still have something to hide but he thinks that i wont find out because he figures that i dont know about that kind of stuff like how to hack into computers or just how to check the history i know all of that but does it mean that he could still be hiding something? the one thing that he wont even let me touch is his cell phone so that worries me that hes texting one of his exs i dont know but im getting sick and tired of my insecurities is there something that can get rid of it? please and thank yous for the responds
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): He sounds quite open if he's giving you all these passwords.
How did you get so suspicious? Has he ever given you any reason to be, or did someone cheat on you in the past? If so, he doesn't deserve for you to suspect him unless there is a good reason. It could be that he just wants some privacy, some area in his life where he isn't being watched. Being watched can be very unnerving.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 I know that sometimes people give you their passwords, without your asking, in order to "prove" they hide nothing. This can be a good sign, or then it could be a clever way to hide the important things: like the anonymous female poster said, you only have the passwords to the things you know to exist. If he's hiding an e-mail account, then his giving you the passwords is no more than deceit.
I would believe that he would also let you check his cell phone if he wanted you to have full access to everything his. But, be very much aware that none of us can really tell you whether he hides something or not. Maybe not.
Personally, I agree with Vsnod. You need to trust your partners, lovers, whatever. There is no reason why you should ask for another person's passwords, or check his cell phone. It does seem like you have a problem in your relationship. Maybe you want to talk about that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Of course he could still be hiding something. You only know about the passwords for the things he's told you about - he could have e-mail accounts and profiles set up that you have no clue about. Or maybe he has nothing to hide. That sounds unlikely though, if he spazzes about his cell. My guess is he has something to hide and you're a snooper: match made in heaven.
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reader, vsnod +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Is there some reason why you need to keep such close tabs on him? I know I wouldn't like my bf asking for all my passwords and I love my bf and do not cheat on him.
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