Is he only interested in sex? This guy has confused me.

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and this guy work together and have known each other for a while. The night we were out with co workers he admits to having his eye on me for a long time. (this wasnt the first he told me that a few months ago but I was on the rebound and wasnt ready). We talked about how we both have liked eachother for awhile and he wants to "move forward" with me and explore this but that hes not looking for a serious relationship, however he went on to say that "thats not to say Im against relationships, if I find you or someone datable and we really like eachother then I certainly will." I replied with "well you make it sound like I have to impress you, it goes both ways ya know." I got a little snippy with him. He said YES, you're absolutely right I have to impress you too! No doubt about it." We went back to his apartment to eat dinner, we just talked for like 4 hours and then we started making out passionately, but I told him Im not ready to sleep with you yet, im not that kinda girl. He respected that, continued to kiss me and said you coming all the way here just to make out was totally worth it. He gave me the choice to sleep alone or with him and said "Id prefer if you'd sleep in the bed with me, i promise no funny business" And he meant it, he completely respected me did NOT try ANYTHING while in bed. While lying in bed he keeps his distance but he reaches his hand out and we fall asleep holding hands tightly. He then kisses the back of my hand softly and falls asleep. In the morning, he doesnt try anything he just gets up makes me coffee and breakfast and we talk for a little while until both of us had to leave. He kisses me goodbye smiles, and says he's really happy I stayed with him, thank you.

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