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writes:Basically, there is this guy in my school, lets call him B. He is 2 years older than me-I'm 14 and he's 16. I made friends with him when I was around 13-I'm friends with someone he's friends with, so he came up to me and my other friend (not the one that he knows) and started talking with me and my friend... After that we would sometimes chat. Before the end of that school year (when I was still around 13), he came up to me and asked me to sign his yearbook, so I did... I thought that was quite strange because I barely knew him. Then, after a summer holiday (which was few days after I signed his yearbook), I remember walking in school at the first day of school (I was 14 then) and finding him looking at me... I didn't think much of it so I walked off to find my other friends, but that 'moment' stuck in my mind...I became best friends with my friend that B knows (who is male), so us three always hang out a lot in school (me, my bestie and B). I also become rather good friends with B himself, and I have reasons to think that he might like me...Basically, even though I and my other friends hug (both male and female), I find B's hugs more personal if ya get what I mean-they are not some quick short hugs... Also, me and him sort off flirt over e-mails and generally flirt a bit whenever we see eachother-I don't really think much of the flirts, as I am rather dirty minded so I like to talk 'dirty', but my friends know that it's a joke, and I truly hope that B does, too although, most of the flirting towards him I do mean because I have a crush on him, if you haven't noticed... Also, he jokingly asked me if I want to marry him, and I said yes. Soon he told me that he asked three or four other people to marry him (obviously jokingly), but for my happiness he will only settled to marry one other girl (bloody polygamist XD). So now we jokingly call each other husband and wife... Also, recently, he started kissing me on forehead, head and shoulder after hugging me (which I obviously like)-today after I complained (whilst hugging him) that I can't reach him well (he's slightly taller then me-only a bit) he picked me up and spun me, then let go of me and bruised my shoulder a little bit. So once again, I complained, and he 'kissed it better'-my shoulder. Also, he likes to poke me... And to put his arm around my waist when we walk side by side.... I find all of that absolutely adorabe and of course I like what he does... But...Does he like me? What do you think? I haven't got a clue, obviously!.. The fact that he asked some other girl to 'marry' him made me draw to a conclusion that he is like that towards his other female friends, but I'm not sure I just don't know what to think - I am soo confused. I obviously have a crush on him... You people are my only help, since most of my friends are male I don't have anyone to talk about this... Thank You!
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reader, Lulu_bud  +, writes (4 March 2010):
I think that's so cute how he does that. He obviosly does like you! I also think that he asked other girls to marry him to maybe make you jealous. But if he kisses your forehead and puts his arm around you he really likes you I can tell. You should really try to show him you like him and he will catch on most likely ask you out. Definetly go for it and good luck.
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reader, Blod +, writes (3 March 2010):
 Yeah I think he likes you. All the signs are there. If you have any doubts that he's just a flirty kinda guy and like that with all girls then sneakily notice how he treats other girls. Guys normally behave slightly differently with girls they like. As for guy friends, they can be an advantage. If B likes you then he might have told one of his mates, so you could try mentioning him in conversations to see the reaction you get. Play detective. Either way he's big time flirting with you!
Good luck and go for it!
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reader, blackberrylove +, writes (3 March 2010):
It sounds like he does like you, age doesn't matter that much to guys unless the girl is way younger, infact most guys quite like a girl younger as they can feel more protective over them. You shouldn't be afraid to make the first step in taking your relationship with him further. You could do it yourself by simply asking him who he likes or getting one of your male friends of yours who is close enough to him to ask him what girls he likes as he most likely to tell his friend the truth rather than you. Although overall i reckon he does like you, so goodluck and i wish you all the best :) btw if you ever need to talk to anyone as you said you don't have much girl friends, you can always email me :}
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