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2nd time I have sex will there still be a burning sensation/

Q.   Hi im 19 and have been wondering, i jst had sex 4 da 1st in da lst month, it was very painful n i had dis intense burning sensation wen he trusted. So its been month since i had sex hw bad is it going 2 feel da second time and wil da burning ...

A.   18 January 2011: The first time i had sex it did not really hurt because he made me bleed when he first started fingering me, which did hurt and burn quite a bit. It only hurt and burned like that for 2 or 3 more times after that so it might hurt a little for you ... (read in full...)

I told him I wanted a divorce because of his porn use, and he refused. What can I do?

Q.   I need some advice on my marriage. This month i will be married for 4years, we have 2 children 2 1/2 and 10 years. I have caught my husband plenty of times where he will sit and watch porn on the internet and also masturbate to it and every now and ...

A.   4 March 2010: I can see how you might be upset if he won't listen to you and if you feel like you don't trust him but everyone masterbates. Like I mean if he does it so much that it bothers you maybe you should have sex more.... (read in full...)

We are young, how far should we be going with sex, I am confused?

Q.   ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for five months and he is sixteen me but he says we should start kissing just because we've been dating for that long. so when ever we got home from school he would pick me up in his car and we would go to his ...

A.   4 March 2010: It's okay to kiss and touch but only as long as your comfortable with it. Since he is 16 he is going to have some needs and is going to want to do lots of stuff. If your not completely comfortable with what he was doing you could stop him but if you ... (read in full...)

I am nervous about sexual possibilities, any calming suggestions??

Q.   Sooo.. My boyfriend and I are just getting into the sexual thing, but not sex. I want him to finger me, but Im nervous. I know he has pube hair but will he get turned off by me having it? ...

A.   4 March 2010: You shouldt be nervous because it's not that bad at all and it doesn't really hurt, maybe only the first couple times just a little bit. some guys have pubic hair and some don't. I'm sorry to say this but yes most guys do get turned off alot if you ... (read in full...)

Could you give us some good sexual tips, please??

Q.   I need some tips on giving my boy a hand-job and some tips for him fingering me....? Please and thank you....

A.   4 March 2010: Well when you giving a hand job they like it best when you start doing nce short long strokes then get faster. They love it when you spit so there is lots of lube then keep your hand in like the almost closed circle position and start at the top of ... (read in full...)

Is he just TOO friendly, or does he LIKE me?

Q.   Basically, there is this guy in my school, lets call him B. He is 2 years older than me-I'm 14 and he's 16. I made friends with him when I was around 13-I'm friends with someone he's friends with, so he came up to me and my other friend (not the ...

A.   4 March 2010: I think that's so cute how he does that. He obviosly does like you! I also think that he asked other girls to marry him to maybe make you jealous. But if he kisses your forehead and puts his arm around you he really likes you I can tell. You should ... (read in full...)

So embarrassing!

Q.   So I was with my friend chilling. Well I guess you can say we are sexually attracted to each other. We always end up having sex when we chill. Well this weekend I chilled with him for a couple of hours. I found out that he had a really bad day...so ...

A.   1 March 2010: Wow all i can say is he is a dick for saying that and I can see how it would be very awkward. So you guys aren't dating? I think you should just tell him that it hurt for him to say that.... (read in full...)

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