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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, i signed up to this dating site and met this boy we did only talk for a day and then swapped numbers, we started texting and decided to met up. We met up and we got on well, and then met up last night to. We both havent long got out of relationships and he does work away. We have still been texting and I do want to met up with him again , but I'm not what he wants and if he just doing it to pass time. How could I ask him to met up again without seeming to full on, and how can I ask what he want this to come to without scaring him off? Ps. Due to us meeting on a dating site I'm not sure if he's meeting or met up with other girls, as he didn't text alot tonight
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (12 August 2011):
 Just relax a bit and let him do the chasing. If you are newly single then chances are this might be your first romantic interest since your ex, so it will all seem a bit new to you again.
Men like to do the chasing, and women should let them because it is the ONLY way to really tell if they are into you or not. Men are incredibly simple, if they like a girl they will chase her and arrange to see her, if they are not really interested the texts will be infrequent and they wont really suggest meeting up.
So take a step back, only text him when he texts you and wait and see what happens. If you met via online dating then there is a very strong possibility that he is seeing other girls, and you should be doing the same thing too! You pay for your subscription to the site so make the most of it, dont just put all your eggs in one basket with the first guy you meet.
Dont ask him anything - simply get back on the dating site, chat to some other guys, and wait and see if this guy you like actually gets in touch. If he doesnt - so be it, he isnt into you and you can move on. You have only met up twice, there is no reason for you to be attached or to get too upset about it all.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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