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anonymous
writes:I dated a guy one week ago through an on-line dating website, he insisted to meet me , we had coffee on Sat and then we met again on Sunday , it was very good chat and i enjoyed him , then we went to his place and i made it out with him ,but after that , i felt that he has changed or cooled down , i asked him , when i will see u again ? he responded i don`t know and then he told me that i have been seeing a guy since 3 months and i am confused,but u are a nice guy though , i told him fair enough its time to move on and i am not pushing u. Despite that fact that i liked him so much , the thing is , he is texting me every one hour and even more, he wants to know what i am doing and he wants to talk and chat, wants to spend time too , i don't know how to deal with this ? ignore him? or go out with him but can i control my feelings? i cant take him as a friend coz i liked him and i wanted him as a partner but he clarified it to me , what he wants from me? i don`t want to suffer again, i am already pissed of coz he has someone in his life
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 If he really is interested, then he will arrange his life to get to know you and spend time with you.
Right now he is NOT available for anything more than cheating. Did you see yourself in something sneaky and dishonest?
If you can not see yourself as merely a friend, back off the communications.
Keep in mind, if he can do it WITH you (have fun behind his gf's back) he can do it TO you as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): He said he's been dating someone for three months, so you two can't date. Yet he's willing to cheat on his current partner with you. Why do you want a partner who is willing to cheat? Do you think he would be above cheating on you?
You know you can't be "Just friends" with this guy, so ask him, "Why do you keep chatting me up and asking to spend time with me if you aren't interested in dating me? You told me we can't be together because you have a partner, so I don't understand what you're trying to do."
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