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*ebeccaa
writes:Hi so i have a slight problem, i dont no what too think, this boy who i will call P has been flirting with me for about 3 months we have 3 lessons a week together and we sit next to eachother in all of them one the teacher put us together and the other two he decided to sit next to me, he flirts then and then he texts me alos, we just talk about random stuff some texts are flirty some arn't, the flirty ones are things like.. hey babes whats up? and Sweet dreams. Hope to sit with you in ICT if sir doesn't move me xxx (i was just going to bed then) there are loads more. So anyway i told this boy in my science who i will call S and he told P, he came up to me at dinner time and said hey you told S about the texts and then he said i only did it to make you feel awkward. I do like him but i dont wan to be the one the one to ask him out incase hes telling the truth or if hes just messing around, but why doesnt he want to make anyway else feel awkward? Is he hiding it from his friends?
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (27 May 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyouu :)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 That IS confusing, isn't it? I have no way of knowing if he's just messing around with you or if he was truly embarassed at having his texts found out. He sounds a bit immature either way and maybe the best thing to do is just to wait and see what he does next. I mean, the last thing he told you was that he was just trying to knock you off balance, make you feel awkward. I'm afraid that if you ask him out, he'll react in another awkward way.
Just let him be for now and maybe don't react to the texts in a flirty way, if he's still texting you. Just be noncommittal or pretend he's just joking all the time. I know telling you to be patient isn't the advice you probably were hoping for, but I think that's your best option right now. Good luck!
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