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*ofialoren
writes:I have fancied this guy at university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago.We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we kissed and cuddled all night. He kept kissing me on my forehead and hair and generally we were spooning all night. It was absolutely lovely. The next day he initiated contact twice through texts and facebook. He did say in the morning that he would like to meet up next term and that we couldnt this term, because they were three days left and all our essays and tests to do. We had a month off for Christmas.Anyway I got back earlier this week and I got a Facebook message from him that evening from him asking if I was back and we had talked for half an hour or so.Then the next day I randomly saw him in university and he saw me and came up to me and hugged me and ignored my friend who was walking with me. We talked for a bit and then he said he had to rush to his class and said ‘Hope to see you around, yeah?’ I replied that he should text me.I’ve been in a state all evening. Does he fancy me? Where are we going from here? I reallllllllyyyy like him!
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 Do whatever feels right, there are no set rules to this. If you get an urge to text then do it but its nice to talk and get to know a person that way.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 January 2012):
 AT first let him chase a bit... after you are a bit more established then you can start the contact.
do not be needy or clingy or in his face... let him have his room... men it seems need the exact opposite of what we need... we need as women mostly to be close and together to develop feelings.. they need to MISS US...to get those same feelings. makes no sense to me but it did to my fiance....
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reader, sofialoren +, writes (18 January 2012):
sofialoren is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone! I suppose I am insecure! I really fancy him and want him to like me back :)
Just another question: Should I text him or should I wait for him to contact me? Men like to chase don't they?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 January 2012):
You sound so insecure. You must really like him.
Yes dear one he fancys you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I think it's pretty obvious that he fancies you. Go on dates, get to know the guy. Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): "Where are we going from here?" Who knows? Just play it by ear, have fun and meet up with him for dates and stuff.
Sounds like you're on to a good thing here OP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): No he doesn't like you, in fact he hates you, he can't stand the sight of you, pigs can fly, I live on the moon and purple unicorns exist too.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2012):
Yes, he fancies you! Go tell him you like him!
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reader, SonOfMan +, writes (18 January 2012):
Sounds like a love story in the making. Good luck.
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