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female
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*littergal01
writes:I was an assistant to the managers at my job during the holiday season which lasted three months and in this time I got to know everyone in the store and all the new holiday hires. One person in particular worked in all different areas of the store but it seemed that he was always watching me and other employees noticed him watching me. We got the opportunity to work side by side a few times and I can tell he was trying to get into my head, asking me questions and I just put up a wall. He asked If I was buying my boyfriend a Christmas gift and that he didn't have anyone to buy a gift for he has no girlfriend. He also told me he was a piercer and he got up in my face and said "I have Everything pierced and something twice" omg really to much info for me. one day he came into work on his day off and came up to me and said I'm so bored I have nobody to do anything with. I don't understand he is not shy at all he is very out going so why not just ask me for my number or to do something. The big twist is after 4 months of this he is still staring at me and flirting but he asked another girl out and she said no.Is he intimidated by me or just playing games with me??? I really think we would be a great match we are both very creative and everyone we work with thinks we look think a couple. This is driving me crazy please help!!!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (20 January 2013):
Hi there. He obviously has some feelings for you, which is why he keeps hanging around you all the time and talking to you.
He probably seen the OMG look on your face that time he mentioned all his body piercings to you etc., and has been wondering ever since, if you are actually interested in him in any way.
As most women would do, about the mentioning of piercings "everywhere" as he put it, would be put off by it and wonder what the hell type of guy he really is.
Like you said, too much information for someone you've only just met.
It's just a little too personal for me, also.
Anyway, putting all that aside, he probably is a really nice guy once you move your mind past the idea of all the body piercings, and the bragging about it.
It seems like the only choice you now have, is to ask him out.
Perhaps when it's just the two of you and no-one else can hear you, why not ask him if he'd like to go out for a coffee one day soon.
And see what he says.
It's a start, and because it's during the day - on a day off or a weekend - well then you would only be out together, for an hour at the most.
And in that time, you would get a pretty good idea, as to whether you like him enough to go out on a formal date with him at some other time.
And you will also know during the first few minutes, whether you like the guy, or else find that you have nothing whatsoever in common with him.
One thing is for sure though, you WILL know one way or the other.
It will either be a new beginning or an end. However, you will have some idea in any case.
Good luck.
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