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36-40,
*arkterem
writes:So I've met this guy and he is just exactly what i've been looking for for a while. He is very good and im good around him, he doesnt seem like a guy who would treat a girl wrong, when he looks at me i see it in him eye that he is really into me and he tells me all those sweet things, but the first time we kissed i stayed over him house and we cuddled all night long, after that we took a cab, i went home and he went to work... he took my number, i made a mistake i think of not waiting for him to call i texted him and we talked via sms for a while... and that was where our "relationship" pretty much stopped until recently, i went to my friends birthday at a restaurant i knew her worked at, of coarse i saw him there but acted very casual.. during my stay there we bumped into each other and out eyes met and that feeling came back and so did the look in him eyes, we danced there and when i was about to leave he told me that hes leaving with me, so i went along with it and we went over his house where i had the most wonderful night and morning but guess what same thing again no phone calls nothing.... oh and he did say that he lost his phone (he was using mine to make couple of phone calls) so its been 3 days and no word from him... so guys i really need your help, is he really this busy with work and all this stuff and he really is a good guy but needs a push and for me to make the first step or am i so blinded that i don't see how much of an ass he really is and is just in it for some good time?
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (5 October 2009):
well one thing she dsnt specify is if she actually had sex with this guy. I'm assumeing she did so yea I would have to say if this guy really liked you he wud be calling you and txtng you all the time
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 Dicaprio 174 is spot on. Ignore him totally and he'll come running. Been there 100 times myself and made fool after fool of myself texting and ringing. My advice from many many years experience is if you like him leave him alone. It is all about the chase with men.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (5 October 2009):
well one thing she dsnt specify is if she actually had sex with this guy. I'm assumeing she did so yea I would have to say if this guy really liked you he wud be calling you and txtng you all the time
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reader, dicaprio174 +, writes (5 October 2009):
Do the same. Ignore him. Harness your need to call him. Get busy with other things: reading, sports, go out and socialize. U'll see how he'll start chasing u like a dog when he notices this change in your personality.
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reader, pervertatilex  +, writes (5 October 2009):
seems he found a side dish to enjoy when the hot meal isn`t ready. if u look deeper u may see his true intentions. good luck next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): hey girl..unfortunately, looks like this guy was just in it for the "fun." in my experience (age-wise looks like I got about (GULP) 15 years on ya...and Ive been on both sides of this "game." 3 days? To me..bottom line is, if you REALLY care for someone, you can take two seconds to send a quick texct or even a quick phone call. I know all about this far too well.9 times out of 10, when your gut is telling you somethings wrong...it usually is, sadly.If you just want to be an occasional hook-up with this guy, then you have to accept it for what it is and not expect a phone call daily from him. However, if youre thinking long-term, by the sounds of it? You may have to pass this one by :-/Think about it...and then make your decision. Best of luck! :)
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