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36-40,
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writes: I am 19 years old and the guy I started seeing is 24. We come from completely different sides of the 'spectrum', so to speak. He is the sweetest most beautiful person I've met, inside and out. We connected like puzzle pieces and have the same standpoints on a lot of issues. We always have fun when we're together, and it's just a fun, fresh, new thing for me (considering I've only had one boyfriend). I believe we have the same feelings for each other, but I'm just a little confused. Last night, he was a little drunk, and we were talking on the phone, and he said, "All I can think about is your sex. It's delightful and always on my mind." Can anyone give me advice as to whether he's just in it for the sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Thank you both, ladies! I'll try not over-examine the situation.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
no, i genuinely believe you two are going to be just fine, it's more of a compliment because he could be thinking about anyone but it's you he fantasizes about which is really nice. what he means by it being always on his mind is he can't wait for the next time but it's not unusual, all guys think about sex every 2 minutes (appaerntly!)
keep hold of this one, you're lucky!!
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reader, superbunny +, writes (21 September 2007):
If someone had said that to me, I would just take it as a compliment that you're either good at sex or he thinks you'd be good at sex.I know it can be difficult at times, but try not too hard to read into what people say when they're drunk.Hope this helps. :] x
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