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writes:I might need your help with this situation. Hope there is someone who can help. My ex... who was at a meeting tonight and asked me if I was coming confused me. I still like him but am about to give up. He was flirting with another girl a bit in front of me. A few times we made eye contact and sustained it. I was bored of the meeting and am still bothered a bit by him and how he was acting so I got up and left early. I could tell that this threw him. I also noticed when I came in the room he kind of looked down and looked uncomfortable. I am so confused and am about to give up on this guy. This is a tough question to answer but anyone with any insight.. it would help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): It can be very difficult to see an ex move on if you're not completely sure if you are ready to yourself.
The most important issue here is NOT the flirting, while it's not the nicest thing to do in front of an ex he is no longer yours.
Do you still have feelings for him? Would a relationship between the two of you work? Why didn't it work out the first time - would it be any different this time?
If you don't want to be with him, then I suggest you avoid being in situations where you'll see him flirting with other girls. If you do want to be with him, then you should do something about it before it's too late.
I wish you the best of luck
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (5 February 2008):
You refer to him as your ex but you are treating and responding to him as if he is your current and not your ex. You cannot have it both ways.You need to decide if you want to continue just as friends with him or if you find that too hard to do, then act accordingly. If I was friends with someone then I would be happy if they were with someone who seemed nice and it would not bother me.Saying that, I have never been able to stay friends with my ex's but my cousin who has been married several times has no difficulty with hers. People are different.If he is your ex but you wish he was not, then that is a different question and one that will require you to do some careful thinking before you act.Certainly as your ex he does not have to account to you for his actions neither can you hold them against him.Be careful and I wish you good luck whatever you decide.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 He is your ex and he flirted with another girl in your presence and you take offense.
Though he is your ex and you still have hope of coming back together. Now , you don't know if you want to hammer the last nail into his coffin or not.
He is your ex, and he does not have to answer to you anymore.
Flirting is a harmless activity.
Because of this , you want to end it for all.Don't you think you are very judgmental ?
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