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30-35,
*axgirl93
writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, it got really ugly and really bad. We both did things that really hurt each other and iv asked him repeatedly to try and make things work because i still love him very much and miss him more than anything; he doesnt want to get back together. but I dont want things to be over, not just yet. I know it in my heart that we arent over i just wish he would realize how much we make sense. Could it be that he is just feeling a little trapped and just needs time away from me? Wont this just make things worse? I dont want him to just move on and forget about me, what should I do? Will he want me more if i am with someone else?ps. can a male respond to this as well, i would like to see things from an actual guys point of view since thats my problem.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
This is a male point of view.
No. Your heart is ignoring the signs. He broke up with you and has made it clear he isn't interested. I know you love him, I konw you miss him, but he's not the guy for you. Let your heart grieve, let it mend (and it will take time), but please don't wait around for this guy. There are other great guys out there and one will be all for you. This guy ins't interested. Be brave. Move on.
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