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writes:Is he falling for me? I am madly in love with a guy who I only see from time to time. At first he was quite cool, only calling me now and then and only giving me a quick peck on the lips when we met! - Now he is calling a lot more and calling me babe and love and also sent me a sloppy Xmas card etc ...So anyway, I am firstly wondering a) Why wasn't he like this in the beginning and b) Can a guy gradually fall in love with you if they were'nt at first? Reply to this Question
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reader, didda123 +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Yes i think you can gradually fall for someone the more you get to know them qualities they have show through.
Are you giving him plenty of signals back that he can pick up on that you actually like him as well?
I'm note sure of the circumstances that cause you to only see each other now and then but if he is starting to call you a lot more frequently he may be keen on you in that way though those terms of endearment could be used for a very good friend as well i suppose but the Christmas card makes me think he does have a soft spot for you.
I would just say make it blatently obvious that you are keen on a relationship with him you will have to up your flirting skills just to be sure.
Good luck x
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