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Is he bisexual? Just a bit worried about the kinky things my BF enjoys

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Question - (3 April 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi. First to give you a little background, me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 10 months, we are generally happy together, we argue like most couples but over all we get on just fine.

There is just something I am a bit worried about with him, when we first started having sex, he enjoyed it, we tried a few kinky things like dressing up, role play, bondage ect. Then about two months ago, I played with his ass a little when we had sex because he asked me to, he really enjoyed it, which I can understand because this is where his GSpot is.

Since then he has been asking me on a regular basis to lick his ass, finger it and even use my dildo on it. He cums after about 30 seconds every time, he clearly likes it, but it worries me that he likes it more than sex with me. Is he homosexual? Bisexual? I'm so confused.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 April 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntMOST of the men I have dated over the years have liked anal play and NONE of them were gay or bisexual. They just were comfortable with me and their sexuality.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (4 April 2015):

CindyCares agony aunt He woud be gay or bisexual if he liked anal play with a man.

Being that he enjoys it with a woman , that does not make him gay or bisexual, makes him a guy who likes anal play

( which is far from uncommon, btw )

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2015):

Janniepeg... not sure where you get your informationf rom because sperm donators do it themselves we don't get help from nurses! ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2015):

If he were gay or bisexual, he'd have a man do it.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (3 April 2015):

janniepeg agony auntNo, liking anal play does not mean he is bisexual. Only if he can't come with vaginal sex or has to fantasize about a guy. Men who go to clinics to donate sperm or to check sperm sample have their prostates milked by nurses. It doesn't take long for them to ejaculate.

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