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writes:My boyfriend can be a bit mean. I went out tonight. one drink and played pool with my cousin. he has been in a massive mood over it. I do not understand why? I love him so much. but why would he be so mean as to say fuck you so much over it? we have been together a year and a half and this is the first time i have gone out. so fair anouther this is new. but not bad right? its not as if i didnt tell him what i did. i could have lied so easily but i didnt. is he a bad guy or just a little paronoid and needs to get use to the idea of me going out with the girls once in a blue moon???
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 April 2010):
This is the big red flag, and the moment you need to end it. Now. He's controlling, and it's coming out. Within a few years, he may even be hitting you. Leave him now.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 He is morphing into a control freak and emotionally abusing you to keep you under his control. He is trying to control who you can mix with and when you can go out.
Don't let your rights be eroded though his selfish behaviours.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 YIKES! Red Flag! Your guy is being controlling if he can't handle and verbally abuses you because you went out and had fun on your own. GET AWAY WHILE YOU CAN! I am telling you with all the urgency within me - get away from him NOW. That tendency in him will only get worse, and THAT kind of behavior sometimes escalates into control-freaks physically abusing and even killing their g/f's/spouses.GET AWAY!!!!!! Run like heck! Tell friends of yours and everyone you know about this and get a support group. This is not inexperienced insecurity. He's implying violence when he is verbally abusing/tearing you down/swearing at you for going out. It must stop NOW, and you have to stop it.
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