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writes:Hi AllI had my first date with a guy i met online today. We had been chatting for over a month, texting and talking on the phone.I was really nervous,but we spent about 5 hours together, had a few drinks and lunch and managed to not have any awkward silences. I have quite low self esteem so I couldnt possibly see how he found me attractive, and keep thinking he was just being polite. He always maintained eye contact, smiled and kept the conversation going, and we had a laugh over a few double meaning flirty statements.We had a brief kiss at the end of the day (not a proper kiss just a few pecks on the lips and a hug). When I got home he text me asking If i was home yet, and then more texts, then he said he had a good time. I replied that i did too, and did he fancy meeting up again, and he said yes. So it all sounds promising, but I keep thinkin he is just being polite? What is wrong with me.What do you guys think, I appreciate your views on this. Ta
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, Thanks for your reply. I suppose you are right, he text me first, so thats a good sign. I am trying not to appear too eager, but I dont want to play games either. I was thinking about texting him this morning, but decided to let him come to me. I just dont want to get hurt, as I do like him, so I dont want to chase for it all to be in my mind, if you know what i mean. I really hope he initiates a second date. Thanks again, your reply was really helpful
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Your clue was his IMMEDIATE text to you. Also, it was more than one kiss (peck). He wanted to be sucking your face off. He likes you.
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