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writes:I'm very confused and have no idea what this man wants. I met a guy a month a go and we went on couple of dates. First date was perfect but the second he acted like a jerk. I stopped talking to him because i didnt want someone like that in my life. Well he kept texting me and we hung out at his house and watched a movie. It was the first time we held each other. Everything was fine again until we got intimate. We didnt do it but other things were done. After that he wouldn't text me as much as he used to. Does this mean its over?? I know i shouldn't have done anything w/out him being my boyfriend first but that nite he said he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend. I don't text him that much bc i dont want to seem desperate. Im not texting him, i think he thinks im not interested. Last nite he texted me just asking me how i was. I said i was good and asked how he was doing but i didn't get a reply..what should i do??
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (31 October 2008):
ggl777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell the day came and told him i would hang out but that i didnt think i was going to sleep over since i had work.. i told him to text me when he was off of work. He ended up texting me like 11pm and was trying to convince me to go but i said no because i had work the next day..
I text him the next day asking if we were going to hang out and he said we could but only for a little bit because he had to go to a party later. Then he was texting me telling me that he didnt want to be kissing me if i wasnt his girlfrien and asked me if i wanted to be his gielfriend..i was soo excited and said YES..but he texted back sayin"NO I DONT WANT TO PLAY GAMES ANYMORE" and started saying that he wanted (sexually) and that i didnt want that..i dont understand why he kept saying that i didnt want sex..i asked him if that was all he wanted and said "NO..I WANT TO BE YOUR MAN A GIVE YOU SOME"
i didnt end up going to his house to hang out bc he didnt reply back..i text him 3 days later asking me what had happened that one day but he didnt reply back..its been almost a week now and he hasnt conctacted me..any suggestions?????
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Well if you want to hang out then thats a good thing, but i would not stay over. Tell him that you dont think you should sleep over but you want to hang out and see what he says, if he gets angry that is not a good sign! Or if you do want to sleep over, dont do anything with him and see how he reacts.
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (22 October 2008):
ggl777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, thanks for your comment it was really helpful. I think i already new all of this deep inside, i guess i just didnt want to realize that someone like that could only want that from me. He text me today asking me if i wanted to hang out with him this weekend and maybe sleep over, so you were right. Now i really like him and want to make him wait like you said and see tuelly if that is all he wants.. what should i text him back??
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (22 October 2008):
I have been in this situation many times, and from my experience i have learned that these types of guys do not want to be your boyfriend. They want to have sex with you, then never speak to you again. Something i have learned is the way to find out if a guy is truley interested in you, make him wait. If he is not interested he will move on to someone who will do it on the first night. Guys act so nice and like they are truley interested in you until they get what they want then you find out their true colors.
In my opinion, and its only my opinion, he isnt texting you as much because you didnt go the whole way. In the beginning he was because he was trying to get into your pants. He is messaging you to keep you wanting him so maybe he can get what he wants.
remember this is only my opinion, but i have been through this before.
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