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writes:I am 15, and dont have a boyfriend. I realise this is quite normal, but i still can't help feeling lonely.While my friends are all out with their fantastic boyfriends, im stuck, alone.Well anyways, i know a lot of you will say, "Your time will come", but what if it doesnt? a lot of people go through life alone, and i just get the feeling i will too.It's not like i want a boyfriend so i'll look cool, or lose my virginity, like other teenagers, I just want someone to be there for me, who cares.So my question is, do you seriously believe everyone will find someone? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Some people end up spending their life alone, and they are not all "loons" as some would like to think. I'm 26, stable with a good job, friends, funny, etc, etc, but I've never had a girlfriend, and as far as I can tell that will never change. It is just the way it is. If I may offer some advice, if you don't want to end up a spinster, don't on a whim reject guys that approach you. Make sure you have a good reason, so you don't end up regretting it later.
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reader, Thresak  +, writes (12 June 2008):
my dear you are very young i would advise you to concertrate on school first. relationships are destractive academicaly. why dont you 1st archive your goal then think bout geting in a relationship. about your friends dont worry about what they are doing its about you and what you want. that time will come and youl be very happy nowing youl be able to stand on your two feet even if anythng hapens in your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): i'm 15 and i never had a boyfriend in my life so i'm in the worst passition..but u cant look for someone just enjoy life and someone might come along..i used to be desprrite but i'm not any more cuz i've learned that u have more years to go so u just chilax
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (12 June 2008):
I believe that if you dont find someone it was because you were to distracted by something else to look. If you really want love then it will find you. As far as your friends dont be jealous if it does last a long time they will learn that their men will change when responsibility hits them. It is after that point when you find out what type of man they will be that you learn if it will last. I should know I met my High School sweet heart at 15 and three and a half years later a year after graduating and moving in together we have struggled but have always made it through. I think that the best time to meet someone though is after that person has learned to function on their own because some men dont handle stress well.
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reader, Short timer +, writes (12 June 2008):
 the sad fact of life is that some people dont find there special someone. hey but look your still young and there is plenty of time to find that special someone. you will know it when the time comes.
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reader, Aeval +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Nope I don't. I believe that unfortunatly for some you never find someone... having said that they are very very rare cases and normally because they are total and utter loons.
You are still at school so you are very limited on the boys you can meet and stuff. Wait til you finish school and start work, its like a whole new world with a million fish! I have no doubt you will find the one you want when you are ready.
Have fun and relax you will find what you are looking for.
Good luck
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