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41-50,
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writes:I'll try to make my story short. I have been living with my boyfriend for two years. He is younger than me. I am 25 and he is 23. I have children but they're not his. When we first got together everything was great. It all started because he wanted to go out and have some fun. He started to go out and now he tells me that he needs his own space and that he is tired of being with me and my children. Every time we get in a fight he always tells me that he is going to leave me and that he doesnt love me anymore. Two days ago we got in a fight and now he doesnt talk to me anymore and if he does it is to tell me that he is already looking for an apartment to leave. I love him with all my heart and dont know how I am going to live with out him. He tells me that now we are only roomates and he doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. He goes out anytime he wants to and gets home reaally late and tells me I cant say anything because I am noone to do so. I feel terrible . I feel like I am not worth anything. What should I do ? I dont want him to leave me. HELP!!!!!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 You have smothered him is my guess. Of course he wants to be able to go out. He is 23! It sounds like the relationship has broken down, and if he wants out, there will be very little you can do about it.
Its one thing a guy going out with his mates now n then, but if he's never in now and comes home when and if he pleases, thats no good to you. Especially not when you have children.
You can do better than that. Older guys have usually lived and settled down a bit more. Young guys are still needing to party, law of probability anyway. You are a mum. You need to stay strong for the kids. They will always be more important than a guy.
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