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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello. Just wondering if being horny tons of times is normal. Ever since i turned 13 I've been getting horny urges. They were laxed originally but as i got to about 18 they started to become very abundant. My estimate (because i don't keep track) is about 3-5 times a day. Now i do plead to it sometime but most of the time i'm suppressing the urges and not taking care of it. I've been told that suppressing it isn't good but i've also been afraid to let it roam free because so many people have told me that no one should be this horny all the time. And when i say all the time i mean all the time. I don't have spurts of urges like in the spring or anything. But i have urges constantly. Now i'm a virgin and I've been told that's why it's happening but i feel that that doesn't explain the constant 3-5 times a day deal. I just want to know if i actually have a problem or if it's just normal.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 May 2014):
 If you mean that you have spontaneous erections 3 to 5 times a day, that's normal, in fact it is even less than average, maybe, for someone your age.
If instead you masturbated every time, 3 / 5 times a day , I'd tell you to slow down. Masturbation is healty and natural, but... everything on moderation. If you do it too often, you may desensitize your penis and train it to only respond to manual stimulation, which often causes E.D. episodes, or delayed eiaculation ( not being able to come ) when you have intercourse.
Use common sense- don't " suppress " every time , you are a teenager not a monk. And do not feel luke to have to " take care " every time , they told you bullshit, nothing bad happens to your health and body if you do not take care of every urge.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 May 2014):
 totally normal.....in fact if it's only 3-5 times a day you may even be a bit below average for a teen boy.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (23 May 2014):
Dear OP,
You are normal. Guys have more testosterone than women and that makes you more horny. Even I know phases where I am horny 5 times a day and I ignore those impulses sometimes, sometimes I give into it. I think it's neither unhealthy nor healthy to suppress some urges. You don't have a medical condition, just your body reminding you of it's functions and desires. So, if you feel horny but you're not in a place where you could or would masturbate, just notice the urge and let it pass. You can still masturbate in the morning or the evening, when nobody disturbs you.
I recommend not watching too much porn, because I found out it makes you more horny. I can't focus well on my work if I am too horny, so I try not to get myself too much in the mood (for the record: I am single at the moment and that's also why I avoid being too horny.. I mean, masturbation is fine and all.. but I would rather be horny when I know I can have sex). Another thing that helps me in times of great horniness is working out. It makes me physically tired and happy.
Good luck!
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (23 May 2014):
Lol, yes, teenage boys are horny every second of every day. I am dead serious, you are completely normal.
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